When You Worry Your Life Is Too “Small” to Qualify for “Big” Ministry
I’ve heard the whispers. The rumblings. The women who pull me aside to share with shy and embarrassed eyes this worry that what you do doesn’t count because you do it at 2am when no one is looking...
View ArticleHow I Do It All (Not)
People often ask me how I “do it all” – book writing and blogging and kids and marriage and full time work and community and conferences and figuring out new ways to make chicken. Here’s the obvious...
View ArticleDear Sleep-Deprived Mom of Littles, I Can Prove That It Gets Better
The boy that made me a mom will turn ten this month. Three days ahead of my own birthday. I carried him in from the car yesterday. I haven’t done that in years. (If you follow me on Instagram over...
View ArticleThere Are So Many Ways to Die
I think about it a lot. I think about dying. I lie in bed at night and can’t breathe from the bad dreams that paralyze my lungs at the thought of one of my kids dying. I lie there with eyes wide open...
View ArticleThe Benefits of Being Uncomfortable
Since we’ve been given the biblical mandate that we all belong to each other {Romans 12:5, NLT}, this fall at (in)courage we wanted to spend some deliberate time together unpacking what that means. To...
View ArticleThe One Thing You Should Stop Saying to Yourself This Year
So here’s the lie I think we most often, most dangerously, buy into. We take that thing we love, that we’re passionate about, that we feel called to and we compare it to what other women are doing and...
View ArticleWhy I Showed My Kids All My One Star Book Reviews
“You don’t get it mom. Kids can be cruel.” It’s what my 8 year old son told me from the bathtub where I was treating his head for lice. His eyes were red from all the crying after he saw his new buzz...
View ArticleDear Church, If There Was One Thing I Could Tell You About Working Moms, This...
There are 4 things you may or may not know about me: I’m South African, but my accent these days is mostly just confused. Unless I’m using words like, tawlk or cahn’t. My husband married me knowing I...
View ArticleA Free Video Series To Encourage Working Moms
I’ve always worked full time. Sometimes outside of the home and more recently from home. Some seasons have been easier than others. Some have been very, very hard. One of my most read posts on this...
View ArticleI Just Can’t Take It Anymore!
As a full time working mom of three kids 11 and under I’ve basically been stretched too thin for a decade. And I’ve lost track of how many weeks have ended with desperate calls to my husband to tell...
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